Tease and Denial - General Information
Also See Femdom Humiliation
Tease and Denial
Tease and denial is an erotic practice in which teasing is combined with
orgasm denial or control in the context of a female domination dynamic. The
period of orgasm denial may be brief, or may extend almost indefinitely through
the use of male chastity devices.
In a female dominated play, tease and denial is to keep a man horny, and thus
more easily controlled, by making him wait longer than usual between orgasmic
relief. It is also often combined with practices such as begging the dominant
woman to be allowed to come, or to eat his own seminal fluid afterwards.
Within a session with professional dominatrices, this practice can be
particularly suited to a female top/male bottom couple in which the male finds
cooperation in his own submission appropriate. For example, a man can be
repeatedly made to masturbate almost to the point of orgasm, but not to go over
the edge, or he can be fucking his mistress for her satisfaction but required to
stop short of his own.
Perhaps the most interesting thing about tease and denial is that it clearly
exists as a male fantasy. It is interesting that some men get aroused to the
point of orgasm by fantasizing about not being allowed to orgasm.
of Tease and Denial (A Scenario)
Four hours ago, you started a little game. It was a harmless game; a little
exercise in control. He voluntarily submitted to gentle bondage. He allowed
himself to be spread-eagled to the four posts of the bed. He was already aroused
by the time you had taken off your clothes, changed into a thong and a bra and
took up a position next to his head. You stroked his chest hair, allowing your
hands to lightly brush against his nipples. You kissed deeply. You went down on
him, moistening him and sensitizing him to your touch. You mounted him, helping
yourself to his desire. As his body approached climax, you could feel him
increasing what little thrust his bonds allowed him and you started to rise. He
rose up to meet you, to keep him inside of you…but, tied as he was, he could not
stay inside. You rose off his penis, letting its tip stay just at the entrance,
then pulled completely off, leaving it reaching and throbbing helplessly in the
air. You allowed yourself to linger there, just inches from the tip of his penis
as his body, arched up towards the ceiling, eventually gave out and collapsed
back on the bed.
During the next few hours, you've repeated the process using all forms of
stimulation. He has arrived at the brink of his orgasm dozens of times, each
time left with nothing but air, in a vain search for friction. In the mean time,
you have enjoyed several orgasms; orally, manually; even one you gave yourself
with a vibrator while he licked the crack of your butt. Only one thing
remains…desire for release. You stand back look at his delicious body; sweating
and heaving, and consider if you'll allow him to reach his desired orgasm.
Should you take pity on him? Show him mercy? Or, should you do what he's been
begging you to do for the last 30 minutes, and just 'leave him alone'? The
answer is negative.... you should keep him that way...
~ There is no denying the joy of denial ~
If you find any excitement in power and control, even for just a little while,
you will adore the rush of Teasing and Denial games (T&D). T&D is an enjoyable
gift you give your partner. You will be spending a large amount of time focused
on him and his body, so he should be thankful for your time and effort. Tease
and denial is enjoyable for both of you…so be sure to revel in your power!
Why Tease and Deny?
Two words: Power and control. In the realm of harmless fun, nothing approaches
the rush of power you get to enjoy in sexually frustrating a man. Nothing
compares to the control you have when you create a sense of sexual desperation,
and then, at your whim, delay gratification of that desire.
The submissive man will love it as well. Here you're demonstrating a keen
interest and focus on him and on his sexuality. Your confidence shows and grows
right before his eyes. He can spiral in his desperation as each new activity
brings him closer and closer to over-stimulation. You are playing him like a
puppet, and he is helpless to resist.
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