Femdom Playlist

WARNING: The following contains adult material. If you are offended by sexually explicit material or you are not of legal age or there are laws/regulations that would restrict you from viewing this sort of thing, stop reading now.

It is assumed that everything described in this post is performed between consenting adults. And that they like doing this stuff.

Femdom Playlist

Obviously, the key to controlling any man is his penis. Once a man is sexually aroused his primary objective is to reach a climax. By exploiting this fact and tempting the male with suggestions that you will bring him closer to orgasm, you can have them on their knees begging you to allow them to kiss your feet, wait on you, clean for you, satisfy you sexually, humiliate themselves for you...The possibilities are endless.

And the great thing is that many men are aroused further by being submissive, as a result it's a self-stimulating process. The hornier they become the more they want to serve you, and the more they serve you, the hornier they become. A small effort on your part can go a long way toward getting your male to submit to your every whim.

Being comfortable assuming the dominant role is the key to success in training your male and the key to having fun while doing so. If you're nervous in the beginning, start slow and relax, have your slave pour you a glass of wine and give you a foot massage. Once you're comfortable giving your slave orders, they will begin to flow as if you'd been doing it for years.

To help you bring out the best in your submissive male I've compiled a list of tasks and activities; some of my own ideas and many from email and posts in alt.sex.femdom and other newsgroups. I'm sure not everything on this list is for everyone, but if there are a few ideas you like then it's worthwhile. And if you have any favorites that aren't on this list, please forward them to the address above.

Thanks to all of you who send suggestions, comments and additions. Please keep them coming and I'll keep adding to the list and post it every so often.

List of teases:

Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he'll "Do Anything to please You"

  • Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on.
  •  Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet.
  •  Have him address you as 'Mistress', 'Your Highness', 'Goddess'
  •  Call him by something appropriately demeaning: slave, pooch, slut, ass kisser, sissy…
  • Have him kiss Your ass...make him beg to kiss Your ass.
  • Tie his hands and have him undress you with his mouth/teeth.
  • Don't let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time while he is Your slave.
  • Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while you read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes.
  • Either order him to stay erect, or don't give him permission to have a hard on…either way, punish him if he fails!
  • Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever you please.
  • Show Your slave your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching.
  • Tie your slave spread eagled to the bed and tease him for hours.
  • Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don't let him cum.
  • Use this time to manipulate him deeper into his submissive role; tease him into admitting his fetishes, extract promises of servitude.
  • Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with it.
  • Scratch him with your finger nails.
  • Tickle him.
  • Pinch his nipples.
  • Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss your nipple…let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.
  • Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and have him think ways he can please his Mistress.
  • Lightly drape or wrap your panties over his cock. tease him about masturbating with your panties.
  • Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of your panties…get more promises.
  • Turn around for a rousing round of ass worship, and if he does a good enough job, maybe you can let him kiss your pussy.
  • If not, he's in a very vulnerable position for punishment…
  • Blindfold him and make him lick you to several orgasms.
  • Take a break, cum back and do it all again.
  • Rub his face against your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with your panties or a gag so that he can't lick you.
  • Blindfold your slave.
  • Verbal stimulation is often very effective, tell him things you might do to reward him, tease him with ideas you know he'd enjoy, threaten to humiliate him if he doesn't satisfy you.
  • Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, a boot lace or two, or even a pretty piece of ribbon. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
  • Wrap his balls with an Ace bandage so it stretches them away and apart.
  • Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss your ass…stay just out of reach.
  • Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.
  • Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He'll be Your little brownnoser and love it.
  • Make him lick the dildo clean.
  • Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.
  • Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.
  • Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)
  • Use this list as a part of a game or to determine penalties for your slave. Spin the wheel of torture, roll some dice (dungeons and dragons dice are great for this.) Someone suggested using the daily lottery numbers to determine how your slave's day will go.

List of Humiliations:

Once he'll "do Anything to please You" here's some ideas that will keep Your slave attentive and in his proper place, and will hopefully be entertaining for You and maybe even make life a little easier.

  • Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl, a French maid, a whore, a stripper…
  • Give him a fitting girl's name…paulette, donna(for don), or just sissy.
  • Make him do housework naked or dressed in women's clothes.
  • If he wears seamed stockings, a crooked seam is means for punishment…god forbid if she got a run.
  • Have him pamper you, have him:
    • give you a foot/back/full body massage
    • give you a pedicure/manicure,
    • paint your finger/toe nails.
    • bathe you/shave your legs.
    • cook and serve you a nice dinner.
  • Make him hand wash your panties and lingerie.
  • Make him polish your shoes with his tongue.
  • Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash; Here pooch…Heel! Beg! Roll over…good doggy.
  • Attach a leash to his balls or a cock ring, and lead him around with that.Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
  • Ride him around as your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop? a saddle?
  •  Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him.
  • Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
  • Have him sleep in a pretty nightie.
  • Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don't let him, punish him if he does.
  • Make him screw himself with a dildo.
  • Take pictures/video of him masturbating or when he's dressed as a girl.
  • Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until you give him permission. When you give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all.(keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as you want)
  • If he's really horny and bothering you, you may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner…3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
  • Always make him lick you clean after sex.
  • When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive. Give him plenty of chores to do while you're gone.
  • Lock a padlock on his balls.
  • Make him have sex with a blow up sex doll. Make him lick his 'New Mistress' clean. A male sex doll might be very humiliating.
  • Give him a golden shower.
  • Enema
  • Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if you don't think it's good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list)

List of Punishments:

If he's not performing to Your satisfaction, or you just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your slave.

  • Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails...)
  • Tie him in an uncomfortable position.
  • Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
  • Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
  • Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
  • In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
  • Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
  • Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
  • Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
  • Enema.
  • Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult:
  • Handcuff him while he does the laundry,
  • Leave the curtains open while your french maid dusts.
  • Use some rope to tie his ankles to his balls to keep him on his knees while he cleans the floor.
  • Make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet,
  • Tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels while vacuuming.
  • Deny him orgasms for a long period of time (days, weeks?).
  • Have him lick You clean after you pee.
  • Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples.
  • Drip candle wax on him.
  • Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics…)
  • Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie


     

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